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my father is in the army so…………..yeah
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Hmm… I personally would wait on the lip ring until you're eighteen and can get it yourself… I think they look better on a more mature face…
Though I really am glad you're doing this the SMART way and getting your parents permission first… oh my GOODNESS it's so much superior than going behind their backs and suffering for it. I mean… if you did your relationship would never be the same because they'd get mad at you for lying and you'd get mad at them for punishing you… and it would continue from there and be really horrible…
BUT I would make sure you’re acting very responsible… try at all costs not to fight with your parents, and make sure your room and bathroom areas are kept CLEAN and that you're good about getting your laundry done! Get all your homework done before it's due, and if you’ve any chores like mowing the lawn this coming spring/summer or washing dishes that you do it -earlier- rather than later. (The less time these things are left undone, the less frustrated your parents will be with you) And feed and/or walk your pet(s) if you have any! If you can take care of your cat/dog/hamster/bird/fish, SURELY you can take care of a gaping wound on your face?
I know all of that sounds really grievous and boring, but if you really want this lip ring bad enough, it -will- be worth all the effort. What you’ll be doing is showing your parents that you are mature and responsible enough to take care of yourself and the things that belong to you, and doing all this and especially doing your extra chores, feeding/walking your pet, and completing your homework shows them that the lip ring isn't a sign that you're slipping into an unhealthy or dangerous lifestyle, like many others who wear facial piercings in order to be more intimidating, or fit into a rougher-living crowd. One of a parents worst fears is that their child will self-destruct without ever knowing anything about it!
After a while (more than a week or two… too short of a time just SCREAMS “I want something!”) approach them again in a calm adult manner and lay out why you think it would be a good idea for you to get one, and how you plan on taking full care of it, washing it with the provided antibacterial solution or saltwater regularly so that it doesnt get infected… anything you can think of to make sure that they know (if they're paying for it) that their not just throwing their money away for a fad that you'll grow fatigued of. Make very very sure if they say no at first to NOT let your disappointment take control and yell at them!! They have the ability to ALWAYS change their mind as they see you being continually responsible… but as soon as you act like a child having a tantrum, they will shut down immediately and not reconsider for a very long time! Just state in that case that you'll honor their decision and reassure them that you wont go behind their backs to get one without their permission, but DON'T give up! Continue to casually voice interest.. they'll wear down if they don't think there's a good reason to keep saying no… and then you'll have a lip ring, your parents respect, hopefully a superior home relationship, AND you'll have gotten into the habit of taking care of yourself which is much easier learned younger rather than older… trust me.
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Actually, I kept thinking you were a dude, and I had to keep reminding myself that the mental image I had might be wrong and that it was possible that you could be female… but the mental image I had was you being a guy haha That's why “mow the lawn” is in there as a chore =D Report Abuse
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She's not asking your thought on lip rings. She's asking how to convince her dad.
Tell him you're going to get it now or when you are 18, and you'd rather do it now because they have the ability to help with the after care.
Let them know you've studied, and done your research about local piercing shops and tell them how sanitary and professional one is.
Tell them you'll take it out if absolutely needed and that piercings will always be temporary, unlike a tattoo that’s forever. Let him know you're young and want to learn from your own mistakes, and if it's a mistake it's one you can fix by taking it out.
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But piercings and tats are sooo old fashion!
But if you can take it out someday and the hole would heal competely then tell him that.
If you’ve piercings in your facer you can't take any job you want. It just doesn't work everywhere. Consider that. Someday you'll want to be able to earn any salary you select, not be limited by some jewelry that was fashion when you were young. Even though..it's not. I'm so glad today that I never pierced myself.
If your dad's in the army there are so many other ways you can revolt, he he.
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The ideal way, Go thru your parents feelings. Tell mom and father that you want an lip pierce. But for that you want them to accompany you so they as “parents” can confirm that everything is sterilized, that once again they are caring for you. Involve them. Better an pierce than a tatoo, right?!
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i have my lip pierced and its been pierced for over 3 years. tell your parents that it will come out as easily as it went it, its not like the thing is permanent. if your parents are that against it then just wait till your 18 and they cant do a thing about it.
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I concur with the first answer. Of all the piercings, lip ones are by far the worst. Incredibly ugly!
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There is no good way. Your parents are either going to grant you or not.
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Dont get a lip ring! I think they're so trashy and ugly looking.
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tell them its fashion at the time