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My tiny girl makes me happy but I heard some ppl complaining their kids hold back their careers. How do you feel about your children?
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my kids make me happier than they’ll ever know. if they have careers how are their children in the way ? dont they just throw them in daycares or leave them at home alone ?
I tried for 5 yrs to have a baby and I had to listen to co workers gripe about their children, when I finally got pregnant OH MAN I made a promise to GOD I would love and cherish them and I do !
also having children can bring out a hidden talent. I discovered that I was really great at taking photos cause I was constantly photographing them and now im in the process of having my own photography business
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I love being with my son and being a mother. I wouldn't trade it for anything, but I messed up and had him before I got completed with all the things I wanted to accomplish.
BUT, he does NOT hold me back. If anything he motivates me. I want to give him an awesome life and all the things he needs and wants. I want to complete my education and set a good example for his future. My son has motivated me to superior myself and be a better person. I would be nothing if it weren't for him. Everything I do is for him. I love him, and want him to follow his dreams and to know that he has the ability to do anything. The ideal way to show him how is to do it myself.
Everything happens for a reason. Children may slow you down (you may have to miss a day at work or a semester at college), but they’re blessings. If you didn't care more about them than you did your career they couldn't slow you down because you wouldn't take off to see their dance recital or take them to the physician.
I believe everyone adores their kids, and some people have a hard time expressing it. Kids are hard work, but everyone I know is glad they’d their children INCLUDING ME!
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Well, my children make me happy, and of course I've sacrificed some career opportunities. You only have so much time. If I took all the career opportunities i'm offered, I'd be less close with my kids. I'd rather live a life well spent with family than work away from them more. How old is your little one? Why are you asking about this if you’re happy? Are you longing for adult conversation? It's okay if you want to do more than raise your child. Just take care of your child first and well, and let everything else take second priority. Don't take a job if you can help it that takes away from your ability to smile at the end of the day.
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I doubt if anyone wants to admit that the children hold them back, but since my policy is honesty, I extremely dislike the fact that my man has a kid from a previous marriage. The child support is unreal (600.00 a month, or 16.00 per day) and he never would have had the kid if he knew the mom was going to cheat and get knocked up by another man, leaving him no choice but to divorce and pay support… many women use children as a paycheck and this is just not right!
Of course this doesn't hold me back, but puts a major strain on him emotionally and financially. I think if a woman want to sleep around she should not be allowed to get child support… just my view.
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Being a mother is my career, and I wish I understood that a lot sooner… then I wouldn't have tried to balance so much (school, studying and work) It was so hard to decide to give it up! I am so glad I did.
I think our whole lives we are taught to go to school, get good grades, go to college. It is OK to just be a mother but no one tells you that! My tiny girls are growing up so fast and I just want to cherish each moment. I want to set a good example. I grew up always hearing my mother say “if it weren't for you children!” I don't want my girls to have a phrase like that coming from me in their heads.
I still work, but not as much. I make less money and I’ve a stress free job now.
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HAPPY by far!
You can work and have kids AND be a good parent still.
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My son make me so happy words can not explain the joy he brings…..to the parents that think their child gets in the way…….your child didn't ask to be born, maybe you should think it through next time.
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my kids are the light of my life. If anything they inspire me to be a better person.