18
Oct

should i wait til the children are older.oldest is 11 and youngest is 5


Answer:
Wait until all the children are out of the home. That way you can focus on really helping the foster children. They will need lots of help. Also, you can now focus on raising your kids.

You've got your whole life ahead of you. And your husband has got to concur with the decision. You should listen to him.


Answer:
If you don't have the time money or resources to cope competently with 4 children right now, don't bother getting a foster child. It will just put a lot more strain on your family.

I agree with your husband. If your oldest is only 11, you've got teenage years coming quick, when you'll be scrambling to keep it all together with just the kids you’ve.

Your husband must be on board with any plans. You’re a team; don't ignore his wishes!


Answer:
Your first responsibility is to the four kids you created. It wouldn't be fair to your children or the foster children to spread yourself so thin. Wait until your children are grown to foster.

Answer:
Your gonna have to wait until he’s ready. That's a decision you both have to concur on.

Answer:
woman isnt 4 children enough? i mean DAMN!

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