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grateful to your parents or resentful? why?
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I had an awesome mom so im grateful to her..I'm glad i had her for the time i did to see how she treated me so now i can treat my children the same way. After she died no one else was like that..so i guess im resentful towards my father but thankfully my mother had the bigger impact. I know a lot of people that take the pain they have with their parents out on their children…and it really sucks.
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i can't state either way but there are some things i am going to do with my daughter that’s in her best interest that my parents didn’t do with me. i don't resent them but there's some things that were stated and done that i look back on and could cry over but these are the things i will never do to my daughter. i will be understanding and loving regardless of her faults. Some things i will do the same but there's not a lot
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I am grateful because I look at my kids at their ages 16, 13, and 7 and all I do is tell my mother, “oh I’m so sorry” LOL she laughs at me all the time. Everything she told me I should have listened to but I didn't but now I try to convey that to my kids. I tell them how hard headed I was and how it caught up with me. I think to some extent they got the idea LOL! But yeah, I am grateful for my momma.
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I think I was more grateful, but I grew up in a pretty functional household. My husband, on the other hand, gets more and more resentful over what his parents didn't do to protect him (even from each other). So, I guess it depends on your perception of your childhood.
Also, when your children become teens….grateful AND humble!!
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I realized a long time ago that I was more grateful to my parents. I didn't need children to make me realize this - only my own personal experiences. Many “Oh! My parents were right!” moments. Well, my father, I never really felt that way about… he is pretty neutral to me because we didn't speak all too much when I was growing up. But my mother, definitely.
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Yes!! I am a lot more thankful for what my mother went through! I always thought each time she told me to do something or told me no that it was her punishing me for her life sucking, but now I see that it was her teaching me responsibility, and that we cant always have what we want, these are lessons that I now am teaching my own kids!!
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both because she kick me out when i had a 1 yr old and i was pregnant 30 wks
and for 2nd my inlaw bast away and i left my middle child with mum and she got injured [ burn on the side of her head ]
and my daughter has club foot and we Always at the hospital and well u guess the rest lets just say social services got involved
ive never been able to 4 give her its just some thing i put at the bk of my ming
each 1 need a mum and 4 those who don't then the person who don't have a mum the person who looks after them are extra specale
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I’m soooooooooooo much more grateful. Your parents only want to protect you and want what's best for you. I don't think you really comprehend that unconditional love until you’ve your own children. My mother used to always tell me I'd understand when I had my own kids… and well, she was right!!
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im a lil more resentful because now i can really see how lazy my mom was and selfish she was…when i was a kid i didnt think anything of the things she did that was all i knew, i know superior now and she isnt aloud to watch my children at all…
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Now that I have a child I can comprehend their worry when I used to stay out late and not call home. And now that I understand, I wish I had never put them thru it.
I totally get it now.
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I comprehend where they came from in some areas. There are things I'll do the same, and others I'll steer clear from.
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I am a lot more grateful.
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I am more grateful of them.
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I appreciated what my mum had gone through for me, so I guess I was more grateful
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i am 3 weeks away from haveing a baby and i am only 13 and i am scared i am keeping cause i think i am responsible
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