Oct
im worried that when the baby comes im not going to feel a connection to it and that im not going to love it… i know its really bad to state but its honestly how i feel… like ive tried to bond and that sort of thing but i really dont feel like its my baby. i feel like i should give it up for adoption or something. i am trying really hard to bond but i cant seem to
has anyone else felt this way?
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Here is a good site I found about Adoption. I has a lot of info and covers multiple facets of Adoption.
http://adoptionsandorphans.notlong.com
They have some good tips, free guides and some ebooks to help you out. It is a good community that is balanced on the topic.
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I know for myself it still is hard to comprehend the thought that this baby inside of me is real and is my own. I’m 34 weeks pregnant and I don't know if it will ever really hit me until he’s born. Even though I've seen him on 3d/4d ultrasounds and feel him move all the time, it just a really hard concept for me to wrap my brain around. Maybe you'll be like me and it won't really be a reality until the baby is born. It might be easier once you know the gender too to help personalize the baby a tiny bit more.
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You will! What you're feeling is normal. The further you get into your pregnancy, the more “real” it will seem, and the feelings will begin to come around. But, trust me, you’ll REALLY feel it when you get to hold your baby for the first time, and the connection and love just continue to get even more intense after that. It is an extraordinary feeling that you can't envision until you actually experience it. Congratulations! And good luck!
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Your hormones are all out of wack….. give it time. Have you had an ultrasound yet? If not, just wait. That will make it feel very real. You’ll begin to feel movement, and realize that you created a human being, and you are it's life source. At this point in your pregnancy, you'll begin feeling superior (i.e. not so exhausted and sick) but you will feel even less pregnant cuz chances are you aren't really showing yet, and you cant feel or see the baby. Give it time… you’ll begin to have a bond and when its born, it will be a miracle to you! Good Luck
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Usually when they begin moving a lot is when you feel most connected, and when they kick back, and when they listen to your voice or a song you play….
When she wouldn't move yet before 18 wks, i didn't even feel pregnant. Now i am very much connected to her… I get entertained all day with her movements.
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my sister felt this way all through her pregnancies
but when she gave birth it was a total differnet story!
she absolutely loved him to death
and she was so glad she kept him
everybody loves him so much
keep your baby otherwise you will regret it
your bringing a new life into this world, just remember that your going to bee a mother, and have a child to care for 
you can always mail me for a chat, talk?
i dont bite! haha
hope i helped
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When you start feeling your baby kick, you’ll then get a very strong connection. I felt the same way, didn't feel like i was pregnant, but felt kicks and it was unbelievable. Give it some time. When you hold your baby in your arms you’ll wonder how you ever lived without them!
Good Luck!
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hi! its too early to state and you're in a different situation unlike before were in you're not yet pregnant why give your child for adoption that's a gift God gave you. you might just be saying that because you have not feel what you want to anticipate. see a doctor.
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i felt that way with my first pregnancy,it's ok once you hold that baby in your arms all those feelings of love will be there and than you won't know what to do without her/him.
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once you feel the baby move, feel the hiccupsy ou'll feel more connected and once you experience the birth and stuff it will get better
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You're only 15 weeks, you still have plenty of time! Some people connect straight away and some don't connect with their baby until after it's born. Either way, I'm sure it will be fine
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it may take a few weeks after the baby comes but that's normal your ok and will be fine