Feb
I personally would keep it… That isn't the best answer for everyone though…. A baby takes a lot out of your life… Mine make me push harder to get things done… I would go out and find a job and save as much money as I could before I had the baby. Keep the job work, go to school, and take care of the baby… Good luck honey your gonna need it.
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I wouldnt get pregnant that young!!!
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act like a grown up…. you got yourself in this situation.
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File charges agains the father, for statutory rape.
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cry because then my child hood is over and I would have to give up my life for it until the day I die.
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I had one at 13, I made money *babysitting, mowing yards, cleaning houses & so on– mostly jobs that my son could go with me so I didn't have to hire a babysitter* I was able to take care of my son. When I was 15 I moved out on my own and my son and I got an apartment.
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i would never have put myself in a position like that.
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i would probably feel bad for making stupid ideas
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im 14 now and u use protection!!!! and pls i aint that stupid
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I don't think that's an easy question to answer and it really depends on how the 14-year-old got into that position in the first place. There are options (adoption, keeping the baby, abortion), but none of them is an easy decision to make and ALL of them have permanent consequences…physically and emotionally. I hope this 14-year-old will make the best decision possible for her.
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well that's a really hard decision to make. but if I were u i would either find parents for him before u have it. or get an abortion. but do yourself a favour and don't keep Ur baby!
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mtm.babe ~ u have no heart.
that being said, i think if a person gets pregnant at that age that they need to make the best out of the situation and do what is best for ur unborn child. that means if u cant care for ur baby and have nobody to help u, nowhere to live, no money, etc, then the baby might be better off with adoptive parents. (open adoption is great.) giving a baby up for adoption is a beautiful and selfless thing. it really shows that u are concerned with the baby's best interest.
if u are that young but have a supportive family and are mature enough to fully care for ur baby (emotionally, physically, financially) then more power to u. having a baby youjng lets u be young and grow with ur child. u wont be too old to run around and play with ur kids and when u have grandkids u will still be yuoung enough to enjoy them as well.
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Take some time by yourself to decide what's best for you and your baby… NO ONE ELSE! Adoption is something to look into of you're not sure. You can find the baby a good loving home before it's even born. It's not something to be ashamed of, if you believe the baby will be better off in a different home. If you do decide to keep it, research, talk to other moms, learn how incredibly hard it is to be a teenage mom, but also how satisfying. I had my son at 16, finished high school and college and when on to be a succesful mom, wife and career woman. You can do it if that's what you want but you WILL need help. And for the girl who uses protection and wouldn't be that stupid…. I was on the pill and used a condom and STILL got pregnant. Don't be so stupid. If you are having sex you can get pregnant. Period.