Feb
I’ve not been on a lot lately and I missed all of you but to my suprise and horror I lost my baby on Janurary 31st at 10 weeks along. I an trying to cope the best I have the ability to but if you’ve been following my story I had lost a twin at 6 weeks and the physician put me on bed rest to keep the other twin healthy and the baby was growing normally until about 9 weeks when the baby died and I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks.
My doctor stated we can start trying again as soon as my levels go down to zero when as of Feb. 20th they are back to normal but I still have not found a way to cope with the loss. I found out the baby was a girl and me and my husband named her, but what are other ways any of you have done to cope with your loss?
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Hey hun,
I am so sorry to hear you lost your babies. I really am. I had a miscarriage at 19 weeks on January 27th, so we are in the same boat really.
I don't know if your miscarriage was natural or D&C? Did you see your baby? What I did was hold my baby, take photos of her, I bought a teddy for her grave, and I purchased a teddy to remind me of her. All the scan pictures, letters from hospital, everything go in that box. I took LOADS of picures of her and this really helped me. When I consider her I go and look at them it really helps.
I also have a really good book, called 'when a baby dies', the day I started reading that book I felt better. It's been 4 weeks since I lost my tiny girl and the main thing that helps is to talk about it. Oh and trying again is helping a little although I’m scared of feeling guilty for Ruby when I do conceive.
Sorry my answer is so long, I hope I have helped in some way, feel free to email me anytime I KNOW just how you are feeling right now hun xxx
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im so sorry for your loss! i lost my baby boy at 27 weeks on the 20th jan no words can descride how it feels to loss a baby. i dont kno how i cope i think i jst try keep strong for my partner and trying to keep myself fit n healthy so we have the ability to try again x x x x
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Oh my gosh, Jenna! *huggles* I’m so sorry. Truly. Yes, once your levels go down try again. I bet you'll be blessed with another set of twins again! =)
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Oh my GOD sweetie im in the same boat that´´s why i can´t answer ur question…BUT i lost it too at 10 weeks …I found out yesterday that i thought i was 12 weeks 5 days ..the doctor told me there was no baby on the ultrasound……I FELT that the world fell on top of me…MY mother even bought me baby clothes, maternity clothes,,and with tears in my eyes i tell you it¨´s REALLY HARD thinking about how my baby would be and my husband touching my tummy every night is a thing i won´t forget…BUT remember everything happens for a purpose maybe the babies we conceived weren´t healthy and i like crying right now a little bit than crying the rest of my life with an unhealthy baby…..SO just trust GOD that he’ll give you really healthy babies GOD BLESS YOU !!!