Help..im 17 and pregnet?

ok im 17..and pregnet..i have a boyfriend but he is not going to support my baby…what can i do? i cant take care of the baby by myself!!

---

Answer:
I was 19 when I got pregnant for the first time. Eventhough my family was shocked and very upset - they were still there for me every step of the way. They helped me both financially and emotionally. If you are worried about expense, there are state programs that can help with food for you and the baby and medical care for both. I know this may not seem like much of an answer (but the government help would be temporary - so you both stay healthy until you graduate school and are able to find a job). Please do not get an abortion. I know the decision is yours, but there are plenty of people who would love to adopt your child if fell that you can not care for him/her. I know it will be tough now, but I SWEAR things will get better and it is in NO WAY the end of the world, no matter what anybody may say. My son is now 11 and while things weren't always easy, he is a happy, healthy 4th grader. I wish you the very best of luck and I hope everything works out for you.

---

Answer:
You should've thought of that before you did the deed.

---

Answer:
You need an adult to help you weigh your options. You could consider giving the baby up for adoption.

---

Answer:
have you heard of CHILD SUPPORT?

---

Answer:
abortion or adoption.

---

Answer:
what can you do? get an abortion i am strongly against them but in this case u cant even spell the word pregnant u really need to stop worrying about sex an worry about an education!!!

---

Answer:
How old is he? If he is 18 i'm sure you can take him to court….and if hes younger then his parents will have to pay…As long as he is the father, they might demand a DNA test…

---

Answer:
Honey you need to start doing a lot of thinking. A baby is a lot of work and money. are you still in school? do you have someone to help you like a mother or someone. So you can finish school if you still are in school. There is a lot of help out there for pregnant single woman. But you need to try and help yourself too. Get a job. You can do it. You just have to believe in yourself.

---

Answer:
Do you have a good support system with your parents or grandparents or any family that would help you? If you know that you dont have any kind of support, and you know you cannot provide for the baby maybe consider adoption, there is open adoption where you can be a part of the babys life, as much or as little as you would like. Good luck.

---

Answer:
Put the baby on the floor with a note and then ring the doorbell and then go run away

---

Answer:
Stay in school. Give the baby up for adoption to loving parents who will give him a wonderful life. And consider birth control from now on. Children deserve two parents who love and support each other.

---

Answer:
I was pregnant at 17 as well, and I took the hard route and kept him. I struggled with no place to live,no money, and no family to help support me. I found a full time job, got help with daycare, and rented a house. Now, 15 years later, I am a registered nurse, I own a home, and I have been married for 10 years to a wonderful man. It was a very hard time, but I cannot see my life without my son.

Have you talked with your parents?? It is scary to tell them, but it is something that has to be done. You may be suprised at their response. If you still don't feel that you can handle taking care of a baby (and maybe your not) there are a lot of wonderful people that would love to adopt a child and give it all the love in their hearts. Good luck to you hun. Either way, you will get through this.

---

Answer:
okay first of all,

your boyfriend?

total tosser.

and,

it depends if you want this baby.

if you do then, get your family to help you?? :]

or if you dont,

adoption?

abortion??

x

---

Answer:
KEEP YOUR HOPES UP!!!! i was 16 when i had my son and also had my now hubby there with me through everything!!! That baby is apart of you now and you need to take care of it!! and if the daddy dont want to be apart if the baby's life then thats his lose….find some support everything will be fine