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My husband & i are married for 4 months and i really love him.We got married when both of us went away on vacation to Mexico. Everyone knows us as the couple who cant get enough of each other. When i told my family they told me they were disappointed in me that i didn't tell them or have a proper wedding. They’ve a lot of money & are stuck up. This hurt me as i thought they would be happy for us. Lately i am feeling really down and not myself i keep thinking i should have had a proper wedding with everyone we love to attend it.I’m 25 and my husband is 27.When my husband & i are out with our friends lately i keep getting a bit too wild & my friends and i end up dancing on the tables etc, i was always the the 1st girl on the floor to dance as im a dancer.I was always a free spirit type of person and my family hated how i made them look. Im becoming distant with my husband and i hate it as i know its hurting him. Did we rush into marriage? What’s wrong/gotten into me lately? Please help
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Don't let your family's opinion of your wedding crash the bliss you were feeling.
If it is so important to them to see you “properly wed” i.e. big fancy wedding then let them cough up the dough for a really nice meet and greet reception.
You went with your heart and married a guy you love, don't let your family change your mind. If you did make a mistake you will have a lot more clues about it than the unhappiness of your family.
Besides, those who truly know you as you stated above state you two are really great together, focus on that instead of the negative nellies who from what you’ve stated can't seem to stop criticizing you anyway.
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I understand ur situation mrs.marriage girl….but ur age is sort of good to get married ur lucky to get married in ur age 25 cause some of women more than u dont even have b/f as of now….even u didnt get propre wedding..u both can make up to ur other friends and family. think plan when u both decide to get married again or go get some party for ur families and close friend invite them..send them a card invitation with ur apologize and u will be thankful they will come to ur party just to make up to them and theres is no wrong if u getting wild as long as ur husband always there for u anything u wanted to do….party in bar or club with him nothing wrong with that…or even with other girl friends of urs just make him sure u not go out with other guy and always tell him whereever u go and who with u,not bcoz he has right to know about that and tell him do the same…be open up to each other..thats make u feel so closer more..even ur mad,upset to him,tell him u need to talk to him heart to heart…cuz being husband and wife communication to each other is so great and always right….why u feeling distance to him? bcoz u both need to talk each other…go out u two or send him a card or cooked for him…watch movie together..and hug& kisses each other so much…sayin i love you a lot…i want to say more to u but its kinda long now..hopefully it did help u..Goodluck