Apr
she used to be so happy and laughing and dancing around the house and just a normal tiny girl and plays with her dolls and makes up tiny princess stories. now she is so quite, doesnt move an inch and never really speaks anymore. shes like a completely different tiny girl…shes doing bad in school and does not pay attention during class like she used to and at recess she just sits against the school building and doesnt play. she’s a goregous little girl and “was” very outgoing. she does allstar cheer and dance and she cares about practice, when she is at practice that’s when she zones out and tumbles her little butt away and she just seems relieved to be there and she never wants to leave but once she has to leave shes right back to being the sad little girl no one knows anymore. i ask her if something is bothering her and the look she gives me just breaks my heart, its like she wants to tell me something so bad but she just cant let it out her mouth. and i will say baby whats wrong and she’ll cry and just hold on to me and still never say a word then i will rock her to sleep and she’ll sleep for hours as if she doesnt sleep when shes at home.i asked her parents..well i said her mom and her new step dad have they seen anything differnt in her like i am seeing and her mother just dont state much all she’ll say is ” oh shes fine dont worry about her” then she walks away but the step dad glares at me and dont say anything and just goes into the room and dont come out until i leave. so i asked her is she scared to be home for any reason and she didnt say anything,she just looked at me once again with that sad face. I told her to draw me a picture and she did, she drew her home and she blacked out her bedroom window, like she colored only her window completely black and no other ones and i asked her why was her window colored back and she just shrugged her sholders and put her head done and didnt want to color anymore. i dont know what to do.. she’s my baby girl and i hate seeing her like this…its been about 2 mouths with this new behavior. what in the world do you think is going on with her? she is 7
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ok i hate to assume this, but this sounds EXACTLY like a child who is being raped. my mom is a foster parent and she's fostered many different girls who were raped that had the exact same symptoms. watch her carefully and if she seems to get worse, calmly confront her mother. if she refuses to believe, contact your local DSS. she could get taken to a foster home, but it is the ideal solution if she is being abused by her stepfather. it will get worse, not superior.
good luck.
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Maybe shes being bullied, been molestered ?? I know when my sister was being molesered her behavior changed drematicly and she was very sensitive and quite. ??? Im not sure its a very hard question to answer , only your cousin can answer so you may need to have a tiny chat with her to make sure shes okay.
xx
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Her familey is ignoring her or something bad is happing to her in her room.
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I hate to say this, but maybe her step-dad is touching her? Or abusing her.
It sure sounds like it.
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& have you told your parent[s]?
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I feel so bad for her! maybe her parents are fighting, maybe she’s scared of her room, if the window is blacked out maybe she has bad memories from there. keep asking her to draw you pictures. try a picture of just your room. maybe, no offense, her parents are abusive. keep seeking info, and good luck. maybe her new step dad is mean, or maybe it is because of the step father, god bless you and that little girl. I understand how you feel.=(
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This little girl is getting abused.
Her step-dad might not b treating her well.
She's not saying anything because her step-dad probably told her not to.
Her mother probably doesn't know about it.
She's scared to sleep because her step-dad might do something.
You need to do something about this.
What is your relationship to this girl, btw? I just wanna know. Sister, cousin?
She's 7. She doesn't know what's going on, but knows that she’s scared.